Author: thmjmj@8875

  • You Cannot Do a Kindness Too Soon

    Why Small Acts of Compassion Matter More Than Ever

    “You cannot do a kindness too soon, for you never know how soon it will be too late.”
    — entity[“people”,”Ralph Waldo Emerson”,”American essayist and philosopher”]

    In a world moving faster than ever, kindness is often treated as something optional — something we will get around to later when we have more time, more money, or fewer worries. Yet Ralph Waldo Emerson’s timeless words remind us of a truth many people discover too late: opportunities to help others do not last forever.

    A kind word left unspoken. A phone call never made. A helping hand delayed until tomorrow. Life changes quickly, and the chance to bless another person can disappear in an instant.

    Today, kindness is not merely a pleasant virtue. It is a necessity.


    The Quiet Power of Simple Kindness

    Many people imagine kindness as grand gestures or dramatic acts of charity. In reality, the most powerful acts are usually the smallest.

    A smile to a lonely neighbor.

    Listening patiently to someone who feels forgotten.

    Paying for a stranger’s coffee.

    Helping a struggling small business survive one more week.

    Checking on an elderly friend.

    Praying for someone carrying hidden pain.

    These moments rarely make headlines, yet they often change lives forever.

    Kindness has a ripple effect. One act of compassion inspires another. A person who receives mercy is more likely to show mercy. Communities grow stronger when people choose generosity over indifference.

    In small towns across America, neighbors helping neighbors still keeps communities alive. Rural hospitals survive because caring people refuse to give up. Families overcome hardship because someone stepped in at the right moment.

    Often, the difference between despair and hope is simply knowing that somebody cares.


    Why Waiting Can Cost More Than We Realize

    Modern culture teaches people to postpone what matters most.

    “We’ll visit later.”

    “We’ll donate when finances improve.”

    “We’ll reconnect someday.”

    But tomorrow is never guaranteed.

    Every person carries unseen battles. Some struggle with loneliness. Others face illness, grief, financial hardship, addiction, or fear. Many smile outwardly while quietly losing hope.

    A timely act of kindness may arrive at the exact moment someone is deciding whether life is worth continuing.

    History is filled with stories of lives transformed by one compassionate moment:

    • A teacher who encouraged a discouraged child.
    • A stranger who offered food to a hungry family.
    • A nurse who stayed a few extra minutes beside a frightened patient.
    • A pastor who answered a late-night phone call.
    • A veteran who mentored a troubled teenager.

    The people involved may never fully know the impact they made.

    That is the mystery of kindness: small actions often produce eternal results.


    Kindness Is Not Weakness

    Some people confuse kindness with softness or naivety. In truth, genuine kindness requires courage.

    It takes strength to remain compassionate in a cynical world.

    It takes humility to serve others without seeking recognition.

    It takes wisdom to see the humanity in people society overlooks.

    And it takes faith to keep loving when life becomes difficult.

    Kindness is not passive. It is active goodness.

    It feeds the hungry.

    It comforts the grieving.

    It protects the vulnerable.

    It rebuilds communities.

    It restores dignity.

    Throughout history, societies have survived hardship because ordinary people chose compassion over selfishness.

    In times of economic uncertainty, social division, and growing loneliness, kindness may be one of the most revolutionary things a person can practice.


    Faith, Humanity, and the Call to Love One Another

    Across many spiritual traditions, kindness is viewed as sacred.

    In Christianity, believers are reminded to love their neighbors, care for the poor, and treat others as they themselves would wish to be treated.

    Kindness reflects the belief that every person possesses inherent dignity and worth.

    Even brief encounters matter. The cashier at the grocery store. The exhausted waitress. The veteran standing quietly alone. The struggling single parent. The resident in a nursing facility who rarely receives visitors.

    Each person carries a story.

    Each person matters.

    Sometimes the greatest ministry in life is simply showing up for another human being.

    A visit.

    A prayer.

    A meal.

    A conversation.

    A moment of compassion.

    These things may appear small on earth, but they echo far beyond what we can see.


    Five Ways to Practice Immediate Kindness Today

    1. Reach Out to Someone You Have Been Thinking About

    Do not wait for the perfect time. Send the text. Make the call. Visit the person. Your outreach may mean more than you realize.

    2. Support a Local Small Business

    Many family-owned businesses are struggling quietly. A purchase, positive review, or recommendation can help sustain livelihoods and preserve communities.

    3. Encourage Someone Publicly

    People remember encouragement for years. Speak life into someone who feels invisible.

    4. Volunteer Where the Need Is Greatest

    Homeless shelters, rural ministries, food banks, hospitals, and veteran organizations constantly need caring people willing to serve.

    5. Practice Daily Compassion

    Hold the door. Listen without interrupting. Offer patience instead of irritation. Small habits of kindness shape both individuals and nations.


    Final Thoughts

    Ralph Waldo Emerson understood something deeply human: opportunities to love others are temporary.

    No one reaches the end of life wishing they had shown less compassion.

    The world does not simply need more technology, wealth, or influence. It needs more people willing to act with kindness before the moment passes.

    A gentle word.

    A helping hand.

    A compassionate heart.

    These simple acts can change lives, strengthen communities, and restore hope in places where darkness has settled.

    So do not wait.

    Offer the kindness today.

    Because you never know how soon it may be too late.

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    Rick
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • My Life is My Message

    When Mahatma Gandhi was asked what his message to the world was, he answered simply:

    “My life is my message.”

    Few words have ever carried such depth.

    Gandhi understood something many of us spend our entire lives trying to learn: our true message is not found in what we say, but in how we live. Our actions speak louder than our intentions, louder than our opinions, and often louder than our prayers.

    Whether we realize it or not, every one of us is sending a message to the world every single day.

    The question is: how happy are you with your message?

    Not the message you post online.
    Not the image you try to project.
    But the message your daily life reveals.

    What does your life say about what you truly value?

    Does it say kindness matters?
    Does it say people matter?
    Does it say faith, honesty, compassion, and love are worth living for?

    Or does it reveal something else entirely — fear, anger, selfishness, pride, or indifference?

    These are uncomfortable questions because they force us to look honestly at ourselves. It is far easier to talk about goodness than it is to live it consistently.

    Most people want to be remembered well. They want their lives to mean something. Yet meaning is not created in grand moments alone. It is built quietly in everyday choices.

    In how we treat the waiter.
    In how we speak to family.
    In whether we forgive.
    In whether we help someone who cannot repay us.
    In whether we choose bitterness or grace.

    A life becomes a message one decision at a time.

    The beautiful thing is this: no matter what your message has been up to now, you can begin changing it today.

    A harsh person can become gentle.
    A selfish person can become generous.
    A lonely person can become a source of encouragement.
    A wounded person can become a healer.

    Every sunrise offers another opportunity to live differently.

    Saint Francis of Assisi is believed to have said, “Preach the Gospel at all times. When necessary, use words.”

    The world does not only need more opinions. It needs more living examples. More people whose lives quietly radiate peace, integrity, humility, and love.

    Your life may never be written about in history books. Most of ours will not be. But every life leaves fingerprints on other people. Every conversation, every kindness, every act of patience or cruelty echoes farther than we imagine.

    Someone is learning from your life right now.

    A child.
    A friend.
    A stranger.
    A neighbor.
    Perhaps even someone silently struggling.

    What message are they receiving?

    At the end of our lives, people will not remember most of the words we said. They will remember how we made them feel. They will remember whether our presence brought light or darkness, hope or discouragement, peace or conflict.

    “My life is my message.”

    Perhaps the real challenge is not admiring Gandhi for saying it, but asking ourselves if we are willing to say the same.

    And if not today, what must change so that one day we can?

    Click Here is a way to make the message of your life truly dianamic and change the world begining with you.

    Rick

    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • The Texas Caprock: Where the Land Tells Its Story

    Introduction

    Rising like a quiet sentinel across the Texas Panhandle, the Texas Caprock is one of the most striking natural features in the Lone Star State. More than just a geographic boundary, it is a place where history, culture, and rugged beauty come together. For Texans and travelers alike, the Caprock offers a glimpse into a land shaped by time, wind, and resilience.


    A Land Divided: What Is the Caprock?

    The Caprock Escarpment forms a natural dividing line between two distinct regions: the High Plains (Llano Estacado) to the west and the rolling plains to the east. Stretching roughly 200 miles from the Texas Panhandle down toward Central Texas, this dramatic rise in elevation creates breathtaking views and unique ecosystems.

    Standing atop the Caprock, you can look out across vast open spaces that seem to stretch forever. It’s a reminder of how big—and how beautiful—Texas truly is.


    Nature’s Masterpiece

    The Caprock is home to diverse plant and animal life adapted to its sometimes harsh conditions. Mesquite trees, prickly pear cactus, and hardy grasses dominate the landscape, while wildlife such as mule deer, coyotes, and wild turkeys roam freely.

    One of the best places to experience this environment is Caprock Canyons State Park, where red rock formations and deep canyons create a stunning contrast against the wide blue sky.

    The park is also home to the official Texas State Bison Herd, a living symbol of the American West and a powerful reminder of the region’s natural heritage.


    A Rich Cultural History

    Long before modern roads and towns, Native American tribes such as the Comanche and Apache called this region home. They followed buffalo herds across the plains and used the escarpment as a natural landmark.

    Later, during the era of westward expansion, the Caprock became part of the frontier experience. Ranchers, settlers, and cowboys carved out lives in this rugged land, contributing to the enduring spirit of independence associated with Texas.


    Why the Caprock Still Matters Today

    Today, the Caprock is more than a scenic destination—it’s a place of reflection and renewal. Whether you’re hiking its trails, watching a sunset paint the cliffs in shades of gold and red, or simply standing in silence, the land invites you to slow down and take it in.

    For photographers, nature lovers, and those seeking peace, the Caprock offers something rare: a connection to both the past and the present.


    Conclusion

    The Texas Caprock is not just a geographic feature—it’s a story written in stone, wind, and time. It speaks of endurance, beauty, and the deep roots of Texas history. Whether you visit for a day or simply learn about it from afar, the Caprock leaves an impression that stays with you.

    Thank you for reading this article. Please share with others.

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • The Highlights of the Week 4/26/2026

    Sunday – I attended Mass at Saint Luke Catholic Church. There was a Church Service here at WFV.

    Monday – Doctor’s Appointments all day. A Menu Planning Meeting with our Director and the Manager of the kitchen. We view the Kris Kristofferson Story. There was a 1 PM Church service.

    Tuesday – Errands at 9 AM and 1 PM. Sunshine Committee Meeting.

    Wednesday – Doctor’s Appointments all day. Bible Study. Half Day Trip to learn and see more of Irving, Texas ending with lunch at Joe’s Coffee Shop. The Volunteers for the Friends of Irving Library pick out 250 books for the 2 to 5 year olds at the Irving Public School across the street. This was followed by Crafts and Bingo.

    Thursday – Texas Winds entertained for a musical hour. Drum Class. Wine and Cheese Social.

    Friday – Movie Night.

    Saturday – I was out of town so no Rosary in the Chapel.

    My family gathered in Lubbock, Texas for a memorial for my brother-in-law that recently passed away. The gathering lasted into the late hours of the day. We spent the night. Came back Sunday to Forney for a piano recital that my grand-niece was in. It was very good. There were also students doing vocals. Quite a Treat.

    So as you can see, we had another great week at West Fork Village. A Place Where Seniors Thrive.

    To learn more about WFV, for you or a loved one, call 972-721-1500.

    Thank you for reading this blog. Please share with others.

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • One Hour With Christ

    One Hour That Can Change the World

    A Call to Christ’s Prayer-Force for the Unevangelized

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    “Please… if you are honestly concerned about making Christ known to literally every creature—give God one hour every day.”

    Those words are not merely a request. They are a summons.

    Across mountains and deserts, hidden villages and crowded cities, billions have never heard the name of Jesus Christ proclaimed in truth. Entire peoples remain unreached. Souls are born, live, and die without ever hearing the Gospel.

    And yet heaven has not left them without hope.

    God has called a prayer-force.

    Not everyone can cross oceans.
    Not everyone can preach in hostile lands.
    Not everyone can translate Scripture or plant churches.

    But every believer can pray.

    The Forgotten Frontline

    Prayer is not preparation for the battle.

    Prayer is the battle.

    Before every great movement of God, there was intercession.

    Before revival—prayer.
    Before missions breakthroughs—prayer.
    Before strongholds fell—prayer.

    The unreached fields of the world are not opened first by strategy, but by spiritual warfare.

    As the Lord asked His disciples in Bible:

    “What, could you not watch with me one hour?”
    — Matthew 26:40

    That question still echoes.

    Can we not give one hour?

    One Hour Daily for the Nations

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    Imagine if believers everywhere covenanted to offer one focused hour each day for:

    • The totally unevangelized peoples
    • Protection and boldness for missionaries
    • Bible translation among hidden language groups
    • Open doors in closed nations
    • Revival in resistant regions
    • Laborers sent into the harvest

    One hour.

    Not spare time.
    Not leftovers.

    Consecrated time.

    An offering.

    A sacrifice.

    A weapon.

    Do You Love Them Enough to Pray?

    There are mothers who have never heard of Christ.

    Children growing up without the Gospel.

    Villages untouched by the cross.

    People for whom no one may be praying.

    Unless you do.

    Love is proven in sacrifice.

    Do we love the unreached enough to carry them before God?

    Do we “pay the price” of hidden spiritual battle?

    Because prayer costs something:

    • Time
    • Discipline
    • Perseverance
    • Self-denial

    But what is one hour compared to eternity?

    The Hour That Moves Heaven

    One praying saint can shake nations.

    Prayer opens prison doors.
    Prayer breaks demonic resistance.
    Prayer prepares hearts before missionaries arrive.

    History proves it.

    The great missionary awakenings were birthed on praying knees.

    And perhaps the final great harvest before Christ’s return will be also.

    Could your one hour help open a tribe in the mountains of Asia?
    Could your intercession protect a worker in Africa?
    Could your hidden prayers help bring the Gospel where no witness yet stands?

    Yes.

    Because God works through praying people.

    How to Give God One Hour

    Bishop Fulton J Sheen

    Fulton J. Sheen teaches that meditation is not mainly about asking God for things, but about surrendering ourselves to God so He can shape us.

    Summary:

    According to Bishop Sheen, meditation is:

    • Entering God’s presence by quieting distractions and shutting out the noise of the world.
    • Surrendering our will to God’s will, letting Him guide our thoughts, words, and actions.
    • Seeing ourselves truthfully, allowing Divine truth to expose self-deception, pride, and selfishness.
    • Silencing the ego so we can hear the desires of God’s heart rather than our own restless demands.
    • Training the soul, using our mind and faculties not for idle speculation but to conform more fully to God.
    • Purifying our perspective, freeing us from bias, wishful thinking, and attachments that hinder union with God.
    • Remembering our dependence on God, recognizing Him as the source of our existence and salvation.
    • Offering ourselves to God, not primarily petitioning Him to serve our wishes, but asking Him to use us for His glory.

    Core idea:

    For Sheen, meditation is a loving act of self-surrender and transformation, where we move from self-centeredness to God-centeredness. It is less “Lord, give me what I want,” and more “Lord, make me what You want.”

    A beautiful line that captures his meaning might be: Meditation is not using God, but allowing God to use us.

    Faithful.

    Powerful.

    Join God’s Prayer-Force

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    The world does not need more spectators.

    It needs intercessors.

    Hidden warriors.

    Watchmen on the walls.

    Those willing to answer Christ:

    Yes, Lord—
    I will watch with You one hour.

    One hour a day.

    For souls.

    For nations.

    For the glory of God among every people.

    Will you give Him that hour?

    Will you love them enough to pray?


    Prayer Commitment

    Lord Jesus, enlist me in Your prayer-force. Teach me to watch with You one hour each day. Burden my heart for those who have never heard. Use my prayers to prepare the nations for Your Gospel and Your glory. Amen.

    “Ask of Me, and I will give You the nations…” — Psalm 2:8

    Thank You for Reading this article. PLease share it with others,

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com


  • Lead Me in the Way You Desire

    Trusting God When We Do Not Understand

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    There is a prayer so simple, so humble, and so powerful that it can change a life:

    “Lord, if this is not Your will, take it from me. Lead me in the way You desire.”

    Those words are not words of defeat. They are words of surrender. They are words of trust.

    In a world that teaches us to cling, control, and chase our own plans, this prayer invites us to open our hands and let God lead.

    When Our Plans Are Not God’s Plans

    We often pray for what we want:

    • A door to open
    • A relationship to work
    • A dream to come true
    • A burden to be lifted

    Yet sometimes God whispers, “I have something better.”

    Scripture reminds us:

    “For I know the plans I have for you,” declares the Lord…
    — Book of Jeremiah 29:11

    And in Book of Proverbs we are told:

    “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.”

    Faith is not always knowing where the road leads.

    Faith is trusting the One who leads.

    The Courage of “Take It From Me”

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    Sometimes we hold onto things God wants us to release:

    • Worry
    • Pride
    • Old wounds
    • Fear
    • Even dreams that are not His will

    To pray “take it from me” is brave.

    It echoes the prayer of Jesus of Nazareth in Gethsemane:

    “Not my will, but Yours be done.”

    That is not weakness.

    That is holiness.

    God Leads Through Closed Doors Too

    Some of God’s greatest mercies come disguised as unanswered prayers.

    A closed door may be protection.

    A delay may be preparation.

    A “no” may be guidance.

    Many times we understand only later that what we asked God to remove… He removed out of love.

    And what He asked us to surrender… He replaced with grace.

    Following the Way He Desires

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    When we ask God to lead us, He often guides in gentle ways:

    • Through prayer
    • Through Scripture
    • Through silence
    • Through wise friends
    • Through unexpected opportunities
    • Through peace in the heart

    Often His leading is not dramatic.

    It is daily.

    One faithful step at a time.

    As Book of Psalms says:

    “Your word is a lamp unto my feet…”

    Notice—a lamp, not a floodlight.

    Enough light for the next step.

    That is usually how God leads.

    A Prayer for Today

    You may want to pray this slowly:

    Lord,
    If this is not Your will, take it from me.
    Remove what keeps me from You.
    Close doors I should not walk through.
    Open the ones You desire.
    Lead me in Your way,
    Shape me by Your wisdom,
    And help me trust even when I do not understand.
    Not my will, Lord—
    Yours be done.
    Amen.

    Final Thought

    Surrender is not losing your way.

    It is finding God’s way.

    And there is no safer place than being led by Him.

    When life feels uncertain, pray simply:

    “Lord, if this is not Your will, take it from me. Lead me in the way You desire.”

    That prayer can change everything.

    Thank you for reading this blog. Please share it with others.

    Rick Herring

  • The Highlights of the Week 4/19/26

    Greetings,

    Sunday – I was still in quarantine so I watched Mass on EWTN.com. There was a Church Service here at WFV.

    Monday – Doctor’s appointments all day. Oklahoma Trivia, the Willie Nelson Story and a midday Church Service.

    Tuesday – Errands at 9 AM and 1 PM. Tuesday Trivia. Needlework Group and How to Reduce Anxiety Class.

    Wednesday – Doctor’s Appointments all day. Kitchen Shutdown for cleaning. Early Voting. Bible Study. Lunch at Spring Creek. Crafts, Bingo, and an evening Church Service.

    Thursday – TRE Spring Train Ride. Drum Class. International Music Hour. Getting to Know You.

    Friday – Hymn Sing along. Braums Outing. Annex Meeting with Shayron. Name that tune and Movie Night.

    Saturday – Reciting the Rosary and the Hope Group Meeting.

    I got out of quarantine on Wednesday and attended Drum Class, International Music Hour and Getting to Know You. All were great with great attendance.

    The Hymn sing along was great and there were some fifty people at the Hope Group Meeting.

    Drum Class,Rosary, Thank you for reading this blog. Please share with others,

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • The Two Commandments That Change Everything

    Learning to Love God, Your Neighbor, and Yourself

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    In the time of Jesus, religious life for the Jewish people was shaped not only by the Ten Commandments but by 613 laws—guidelines meant to help people avoid breaking God’s covenant. These laws were intended as protection, a hedge around holiness.

    But over time, many became so focused on the rules that they lost sight of the deeper purpose behind them—the heart of the Torah, the spirit of mercy, and the living message of God.

    Then came Jesus, with the genius of divine simplicity.

    When asked which commandment was greatest, Jesus distilled all the law and the prophets into two breathtaking truths:

    “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.”
    This is the greatest and first commandment.
    And a second is like it:
    “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
    — Gospel of Matthew

    With these words, Jesus did not abolish the law—He fulfilled it.

    Everything hangs on love.

    The Forgotten Part of the Commandment

    Many Christians emphasize loving God.

    Many strive to love neighbor.

    But too often we neglect the third element hidden in plain sight:

    Love your neighbor as yourself.

    What if one of the deepest crises in the Church today is not simply a failure to love others—but a failure to receive and live from God’s love for ourselves?

    For until we learn to love ourselves as God desires, our love for others can become distorted.

    It can become anxious instead of peaceful.

    Performative instead of genuine.

    Driven by approval instead of grace.

    Holy Self-Love Is Not Selfishness

    There is a difference between pride and holy self-love.

    Pride says, I am the center.

    Holy self-love says, I am beloved.

    Pride inflates the ego.

    Holy self-love receives identity from God.

    To love ourselves rightly is not vanity. It is humility—the humility to agree with God about our worth.

    We are created in the image of God.

    Redeemed in Christ.

    Indwelt by the Holy Spirit.

    How can we despise what God treasures?

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    When We Love Ourselves in God

    When we begin to love ourselves as children of God, something changes.

    We become less interested in what others think about us
    and more interested in what God thinks.

    We stop doing good in order to be noticed.

    We stop serving to be praised.

    We stop performing for acceptance.

    Because we know we are already accepted.

    Already loved.

    Already enough in Christ.

    And from that freedom, love flows outward.

    Freely.

    Joyfully.

    Without calculation.

    Without fear.

    Love Changes How We See Others

    When we receive God’s love for ourselves, we begin seeing others differently.

    Not as rivals.

    Not as threats.

    Not as problems to manage.

    But as neighbors to cherish.

    Even enemies to forgive.

    Even strangers to welcome.

    This is the revolution Jesus announced.

    Not a religion of rule-keeping.

    A kingdom of love.

    The kind of love that washes feet.

    Feeds crowds.

    Touches lepers.

    Carries crosses.

    Rises from tombs.

    The Measure of Spiritual Maturity

    Perhaps spiritual maturity is simpler than we imagine.

    It is learning, day by day:

    To love God more completely.

    To love ourselves more truthfully.

    To love others more generously.

    This is the whole Gospel in practice.

    As Saint Augustine famously said:

    “Love, and do what you will.”

    Because where love governs the heart, the law has already been fulfilled.

    A Prayer

    Lord, teach us to love You
    with all our heart, soul, and mind.

    Teach us to receive the love
    You already have for us.

    Heal the places where we reject ourselves.

    Free us from living for human approval.

    And teach us to love our neighbor
    as ourselves—

    with the very love
    with which You love us.

    Amen.


    Final Reflection

    Jesus reduced 613 laws to two commandments.

    Not because holiness became smaller—

    but because love is greater.

    And perhaps the Church today needs to recover this forgotten truth:

    To love your neighbor well,

    you must learn to receive God’s love for yourself.

    And that may be where healing begins.

    Thank you for reading this article. Please share with others,

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • The Highlights of the Week 4/12/26

    Sunday – Because I am quarantined I view the Mass on EWTN.com (Eternal Word Television Network). There was a Church Service here at WFV.

    Monday – Doctor’s Appointments all day, A midday Church Service.

    Tuesday – Errands at 9 AM and 1 PM. The Elm Fork River Band performed. The Book Club Met and so did the Sunshine Committee.

    Wednesday – Doctor’s Appointments all day. Bible Study. A Lunch outing to the Chicken Salad Chick Restaurant for some of the residents. Crafts, Bingo, and an evening Church Service.

    Thursday – An outing to the Bear Creek Community Heritage Park. Musical Bingo, Treasure Show, and Open Pool time.

    Friday – Parkinson Awareness, Earth Day Quiz, and Movie Night.

    Saturday – The Podiatrist came.

    The past week, for me, was filled with Bible verse videos posted to youtube and social media. Time for prayer, reflection, reading and watching videos on YouTube, the daily Mass on EWTN.com and enjoying the great meals that arrived at my door.
    

    Since I was unable to go to the Bear Creek Heritage Park, I watched a video about the Bear Creek Community and also a video on George Strait. That was a bit emotional.

    All in all, it was a great week at West Fork Village. A Place Where Seniors Thrive.

    To learn more about WFV, for you or a loved one, call 972 721 1500.

    To learn more about the THM project, Click Here.

    Thank you for reading this blog. Please share it with others.

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com

  • Are You Exhausted? Perhaps You Are Resisting God

    “Come to Me, all who labor and are heavy laden, and I will give you rest.” — Matthew 11:28

    Have you ever felt completely worn out—not just physically, but deep in your soul? You may sleep, take a break, or even escape for a few hours, yet the weariness remains.

    Sometimes our deepest exhaustion does not come from how much we are doing. It comes from how hard we are trying to control what was never ours to carry.

    There is a quiet but painful truth many of us resist:

    Resisting God is exhausting.


    The Weight of Refusing to Surrender

    We often believe that if we can just try harder, think smarter, plan better, or worry more, we can fix our lives. We cling tightly to our plans, our fears, our schedules, our dreams, and even our disappointments.

    We say things like:

    • “I have to make this work.”
    • “I cannot let go.”
    • “What if everything falls apart?”
    • “I need to know what will happen next.”

    But the harder we grip, the more tired we become.

    When we refuse to surrender to God, we live as though everything depends on us. We carry burdens that were never meant for our shoulders. We fight battles in our own strength. We attempt to force open doors God may have closed, or we stand trembling before doors He has not yet opened.

    No wonder we are exhausted.

    The soul was not created to live apart from trust in God.


    What Does It Mean to Surrender to God?

    To completely surrender to God is to place our entire being—our hopes, fears, plans, relationships, and future—into His hands.

    Surrender is not giving up. It is giving over.

    It is not weakness. It is trust.

    It is not a one-time act, but a daily decision to yield our control, and even our desires, to the One who knows us better than we know ourselves.

    At the heart of surrender is this truth:

    “I trust that God’s plans for my life are good, even when I do not understand my current circumstances.”

    That sentence captures the heart of surrender.

    To surrender is to say:

    • “Lord, I do not understand this, but I trust You.”
    • “I cannot carry this any longer, so I place it in Your hands.”
    • “Your will is wiser than mine.”
    • “Your timing is better than my own.”

    This kind of trust is not natural for most of us. We want answers. We want certainty. We want control.

    But God asks for something deeper than control. He asks for faith.


    Why Surrender Brings Peace

    The moment we stop fighting God and begin trusting Him, something changes inside us.

    Our circumstances may not change immediately. The problem may still be there. The diagnosis may remain. The relationship may still be broken. The future may still seem uncertain.

    But our hearts become lighter.

    Why?

    Because peace does not come from knowing everything.

    Peace comes from knowing God.

    When we surrender, we stop demanding that God explain Himself before we trust Him. Instead, we remember who He is:

    • He is good.
    • He is faithful.
    • He is loving.
    • He is present.
    • He is working, even when we cannot see it.

    Scripture reminds us:

    “Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding.” — Proverbs 3:5

    God never asked us to understand everything. He asked us to trust Him.


    The Daily Practice of Surrender

    Surrender is rarely dramatic. Usually, it happens quietly, one day at a time.

    Sometimes surrender means:

    • Releasing a fear you have carried for years.
    • Letting go of resentment.
    • Trusting God with your children or grandchildren.
    • Accepting that you cannot change another person.
    • Waiting patiently when God seems silent.
    • Saying, “Not my will, but Yours be done.”

    Every morning we have a choice:

    Will we cling tightly to our own way and become more exhausted?

    Or will we open our hands and trust God with what we cannot control?

    The more we surrender, the more we discover that God is trustworthy.

    And the more we trust Him, the less exhausted we become.


    A Prayer of Surrender

    Lord,

    I am tired.

    I have been carrying burdens You never asked me to carry. I have tried to control what only You can hold.

    Today I surrender my fears, my plans, my worries, my future, and my need to understand everything.

    Teach me to trust You.

    Help me believe that Your plans for my life are good, even when I cannot see where You are leading me.

    Give me the courage to open my hands and rest in Your love.

    Amen.


    Final Thought

    If you are exhausted today, perhaps the answer is not to strive harder.

    Perhaps the answer is to surrender.

    The God who created you never intended for you to carry life alone. He invites you to lay down your burdens, trust His heart, and find the rest your soul has been longing for.

    Because resisting God is exhausting.

    But surrendering to Him brings peace.

    Thank you for reading this article. Please share with others.

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com