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The More We Become Like Christ, the Happier We Are
Why Christlike Living Brings Happiness

In a world constantly chasing happiness through success, possessions, and fleeting pleasures, many find themselves still searching—still unsatisfied. Yet, the message at the heart of Christianity offers a radically different path: true and lasting joy is found in becoming more like Jesus Christ.

This idea may sound simple, even familiar. But its depth is life-changing. The more our thoughts, actions, and hearts align with Christ, the more we experience a profound, unshakable happiness that the world cannot give—or take away.

What Does It Mean to Become Like Christ?

Becoming like Christ doesn’t mean perfection—it means transformation. It is a daily process of growing in qualities that Jesus embodied:
- Love – showing genuine care for others, even when it’s difficult
- Compassion – reaching out to those in need
- Humility – putting others before ourselves
- Forgiveness – letting go of bitterness and extending grace
- Faith – trusting God even when life is uncertain
These traits are not just moral ideals; they are the building blocks of a joyful life.

Why Christlike Living Brings Happiness

1. It Aligns Us with Our True Purpose

We are created with a spiritual purpose. When we live in harmony with Christ’s teachings, we step into that purpose—and purpose brings deep satisfaction.

2. It Frees Us from Destructive Emotions

Anger, envy, pride, and resentment weigh heavily on the soul. Christlike attributes—especially forgiveness and humility—release us from these burdens, making room for peace.

3. It Strengthens Relationships

Love and compassion transform how we interact with others. As we become more Christlike, our relationships become healthier, deeper, and more meaningful.

4. It Brings Inner Peace

Even in trials, those who follow Christ often experience a quiet confidence and calm. This peace is not dependent on circumstances—it is rooted in faith.

The Journey, Not Perfection

It’s important to remember: becoming like Christ is a journey, not a destination achieved overnight. There will be setbacks, doubts, and struggles. But every small step—every act of kindness, every moment of patience—moves us closer.

God does not expect perfection; He invites progress.

How to Grow Closer to Christ Daily

Here are simple, practical ways to grow:
- Pray daily – Speak honestly with God and listen in stillness
- Study scripture – Learn from Christ’s words and example
- Serve others – Look for opportunities to help, even in small ways
- Reflect regularly – Ask yourself how you can improve and grow
- Practice gratitude – Recognize blessings and cultivate joy
These habits gradually shape the heart and bring us closer to Christ’s character.

A Joy That Lasts

Happiness that depends on circumstances is temporary. But the joy that comes from becoming more like Christ is enduring. It grows deeper over time, rooted in love, faith, and eternal perspective.

As we strive to follow His example, we don’t just become better people—we become happier people.happiness,

And in that transformation, we discover a truth both simple and profound:

The closer we come to Christ, the closer we come to true joy.

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Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
April 9, 2026
The Fifth Sorrowful Mystery: The Crucifixion
The Price Paid for our Redemption

Introduction

The Fifth Sorrowful Mystery of the Rosary—the Crucifixion—stands at the heart of Christian faith. It is the moment where suffering, sacrifice, love, and redemption converge. Meditating on this mystery invites us not only to remember Christ’s death, but to understand its profound meaning for humanity.

The Journey to Calvary

After enduring scourging and mockery, Jesus carried His cross to Golgotha—the “Place of the Skull.” Weak from suffering, He stumbled along the way, yet continued forward in obedience to the Father’s will.

This journey reminds us that suffering is often part of life’s path. Yet, like Christ, we are called to persevere with faith, trusting that even pain can have purpose.

The Crucifixion

At Golgotha, Jesus was nailed to the cross—hands and feet pierced, body lifted between heaven and earth. Above Him was placed the inscription: “Jesus of Nazareth, King of the Jews.”

Despite unimaginable agony, His words from the cross reveal divine mercy:
- “Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
- “Today you will be with me in paradise.”
- “It is finished.”
These words echo through history, offering forgiveness, hope, and fulfillment.

The Meaning of the Cross

The Crucifixion is not merely a moment of death—it is the ultimate act of love. Christians believe that through His sacrifice, Jesus took upon Himself the sins of the world, opening the path to salvation.

The cross, once a symbol of shame, becomes a sign of victory:
- Victory over sin
- Victory over death
- Victory through love
A Call to Reflection

Meditating on the Fifth Sorrowful Mystery invites us to reflect on our own lives:
- How do we respond to suffering?
- Can we forgive as Christ forgave?
- Are we willing to carry our crosses with faith?
The Crucifixion teaches that love often requires sacrifice, and that even in darkness, there is hope.

Conclusion

The Fifth Sorrowful Mystery is both solemn and transformative. It reminds us that through Christ’s suffering came redemption, and through His death came the promise of new life.

In contemplating the Crucifixion, we are invited not only to remember—but to be changed.

Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmailo.com
April 3, 2026
Holy Thursday: The Last Supper
The First Priest are Ordained and Commissioned

Introduction

Holy Thursday, also known as Maundy Thursday, marks one of the most profound moments in the Christian calendar. Observed during Holy Week, it commemorates the Last Supper—Jesus Christ’s final meal with His disciples before His crucifixion. This sacred event is not only a historical remembrance but a living tradition that continues to shape Christian faith, worship, and understanding of love and service.

The Setting of the Last Supper

The Last Supper took place in Jerusalem on the night before Jesus was arrested. Gathered with His twelve disciples, Jesus shared a Passover meal that would take on new and eternal meaning. What seemed like a traditional observance quickly became a defining moment in Christian theology.

During this meal, Jesus spoke openly about His impending suffering and betrayal. Yet, instead of fear or despair, He demonstrated humility, compassion, and divine purpose.

The Institution of the Eucharist

One of the most significant acts of the Last Supper was the institution of the Eucharist (Holy Communion). Jesus took bread, blessed it, broke it, and gave it to His disciples, saying, “This is my body.” He then took a cup of wine and said, “This is my blood of the covenant.”

This moment established a central sacrament in Christian life. Through the Eucharist, believers remember Christ’s sacrifice and participate in a spiritual union with Him. It is a ritual of remembrance, gratitude, and renewal that continues in churches around the world.

A Lesson in Humility: Washing of the Feet

Another powerful act during the Last Supper was Jesus washing His disciples’ feet. In a culture where this task was reserved for servants, Jesus reversed expectations by serving others in the most humble way.

This act symbolized love in action—selfless, sacrificial, and unconditional. It also established a model for Christian living: leadership through service. Many churches reenact this ritual on Holy Thursday as a reminder of humility and compassion.

Betrayal and Love Intertwined

During the meal, Jesus revealed that one of His disciples would betray Him. Despite knowing this, He continued to share bread and fellowship with all present, including Judas. This moment reflects the depth of divine love—offered even in the face of betrayal.

The Last Supper, therefore, is not only about sacred rituals but also about forgiveness, grace, and the complexity of human relationships.

The Commandment of Love

The word “Maundy” comes from the Latin mandatum, meaning “commandment.” On this night, Jesus gave a new commandment:

“Love one another as I have loved you.”

This teaching lies at the heart of Holy Thursday. It calls believers to embody Christ’s love through kindness, sacrifice, and unity.

Holy Thursday Today

Today, Holy Thursday is observed with solemn church services that often include:
- The celebration of the Eucharist
- The washing of feet ceremony
- The stripping of the altar, symbolizing Jesus’ abandonment
The atmosphere is reflective and reverent, preparing believers for the sorrow of Good Friday and the hope of Easter Sunday.

Conclusion

Holy Thursday invites us into the intimate and transformative moments of the Last Supper. It is a day that speaks of love expressed through service, sacrifice shared through communion, and faith grounded in humility.

As we remember this sacred evening, we are called not only to reflect—but to live out its message: to love deeply, serve willingly, and walk faithfully in the path set by Christ.

Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
April 2, 2026
The Third Sorrowful Mystery: The Crowning with Thorns
Humiliation

A Mystery of Silent Strength

The Third Sorrowful Mystery of the Rosary invites us into one of the most painful and humiliating moments of Christ’s Passion: the Crowning with Thorns. After being scourged, Jesus is mocked by Roman soldiers who twist together a crown of sharp thorns and press it into His head. They drape Him in a purple cloak, place a reed in His hand, and jeer, “Hail, King of the Jews.”

This mystery is not only about physical suffering—it reveals the depth of human cruelty and the profound humility of Christ.

The Scene of Mockery and Pain

Imagine the scene: exhausted, wounded, and bleeding, Jesus stands surrounded by soldiers who ridicule Him. The crown, meant as a cruel parody of kingship, digs into His scalp. Each thorn pierces His skin, causing intense pain. Yet He does not resist.

In this moment, Christ embodies a kingship unlike any other—one not of power, but of sacrificial love.

A Lesson in Humility

The Crowning with Thorns teaches us about humility in the face of humiliation. Jesus, though truly King, accepts mockery without retaliation. He shows us that true greatness is not found in domination or pride, but in love, patience, and self-giving.

This mystery challenges us to reflect:
- How do we respond when we are misunderstood or ridiculed?
- Do we seek recognition, or do we quietly serve?
- Can we remain gentle when faced with injustice?
The Fruit of the Mystery: Moral Courage

Meditating on this mystery helps cultivate moral courage—the strength to stand firm in truth and goodness even when it is difficult. Jesus does not abandon His mission, even under extreme suffering. His silence is not weakness; it is purposeful and redemptive.

We are invited to imitate this courage in our daily lives:
- To stand for what is right, even when unpopular
- To endure hardship with faith
- To resist the temptation of pride and ego
A Prayerful Reflection

As we pray this mystery, we might say:

Lord Jesus, crowned with thorns, teach me to be humble.
Help me to endure trials with patience and to trust in Your love.
Give me the courage to follow You, even when the path is difficult.

Conclusion

The Crowning with Thorns is a powerful reminder that Christ’s The Third Sorrowful Mystery: The Crowning with Thorn

The Humility of Jesus is beyond comperhension

Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
April 2, 2026
The Sorrowful Mysteries: The First Sorrowful Mystery:
The First Sorrowful Mystery: The Agony in the Garden

The Sorrowful Mysteries of the Rosary invite us into the profound depths of suffering, sacrifice, and love revealed in the Passion of Jesus Christ. The first of these mysteries—the Agony in the Garden—marks the beginning of Christ’s Passion and offers a deeply human glimpse into His interior struggle.

A Night of Deep Distress

After the Last Supper, Jesus went with His disciples to the Garden of Gethsemane, located at the foot of the Mount of Olives in Jerusalem. There, in the stillness of the night, He withdrew to pray.

In this sacred moment, Jesus experienced an overwhelming sorrow. Knowing the suffering that awaited Him—betrayal, humiliation, and crucifixion—He was filled with anguish. The Gospel of Luke tells us that His distress was so intense that “His sweat became like drops of blood falling to the ground.”

This moment reveals both His divine obedience and His human vulnerability.

“Not My Will, But Yours Be Done”

At the heart of the Agony in the Garden is a powerful prayer:

“Father, if it is possible, let this cup pass from me; yet not as I will, but as You will.”

This prayer expresses the tension between fear and trust. Jesus does not deny His suffering—He faces it fully. Yet, He chooses obedience to the Father above all else.

This mystery teaches us that faith is not the absence of fear, but the willingness to trust God even in the midst of it.

The Sleeping Disciples

While Jesus prayed in agony, His closest companions—Peter, James, and John—fell asleep.

Their inability to stay awake highlights the loneliness of Christ’s suffering. Even those nearest to Him could not fully share in His burden.

This moment gently challenges us:
Are we spiritually awake, or do we also “sleep” through moments when we are called to be present, faithful, and attentive?

Spiritual Reflection

The Agony in the Garden speaks powerfully to our own lives. We all face moments of fear, uncertainty, and suffering. In those times, this mystery reminds us:
- God understands human anguish
- Prayer is our refuge in distress
- Surrender to God’s will brings strength
- We are never truly alone, even when it feels that way
Fruit of the Mystery: Acceptance of God’s Will

Traditionally, the spiritual fruit of this mystery is obedience and trust in God’s will.

In meditating on this mystery, we are invited to echo Christ’s prayer in our own lives:

“Lord, not my will, but Yours be done.”

Closing Prayer

Lord Jesus,
In Your agony, You chose love over fear and obedience over resistance.
Teach us to trust in God’s plan, especially when it is difficult.
Help us to remain awake in faith, steadfast in prayer,
and courageous in surrendering our lives to Your will.

Amen.
March 30, 2026
The Week That Changed the World
The Week That Changed the World: A Catholic Journey Through Holy Week

From a Catholic perspective, Holy Week is the most sacred time of the year—a profound spiritual journey that truly changed the world. It commemorates the Passion, Death, and Resurrection of Jesus Christ, revealing God’s plan of salvation and opening the path to eternal life.

This week is not merely remembered—it is lived. Through liturgy, prayer, and reflection, Catholics enter into the mystery of Christ’s love, walking step by step from triumph to sacrifice, and ultimately to victory.

The Journey Begins: From Praise to the Cross

The journey begins with Palm Sunday (of the Passion of the Lord). Jesus enters Jerusalem to cries of “Hosanna!”—welcomed as king. Yet, within the same liturgy, the Passion narrative is proclaimed, reminding us how quickly human hearts can change.

This day sets the tone for the entire week: joy intertwined with sorrow, glory shadowed by sacrifice.

Betrayal and Preparation: Spy Wednesday

Midweek, often called Spy Wednesday, focuses on the quiet but devastating betrayal of Jesus by Judas.

It reminds us that sin often works in secrecy—and invites us to examine our own hearts. Where do we turn away from Christ? Where are we called back to fidelity?

The Sacred Triduum Begins: Holy Thursday

The evening of Holy Thursday marks the beginning of the Easter Triduum—the holiest period of the Church year.

On this night, Catholics commemorate:
- The Last Supper
- The institution of the Eucharist
- The founding of the priesthood
- Jesus washing the feet of His disciples
This act of humility reveals the heart of Christian discipleship: love expressed through service.

The Sacrifice of Love: Good Friday

Good Friday is a day of profound silence and reverence.

There is no Mass. Instead, Catholics gather to:
- Hear the Passion of Christ
- Venerate the Cross
- Pray for the world
It is the day we remember that Jesus gave His life for the salvation of humanity. The Cross, once a symbol of death, becomes the ultimate sign of sacrificial love.

The Silence of Hope: Holy Saturday

Holy Saturday is a day of waiting.

Christ lies in the tomb. The Church is still. The world seems paused.

Yet beneath the silence, hope is alive.

That night, the Easter Vigil begins—the “mother of all vigils”—where darkness is pierced by candlelight, proclaiming that death will not have the final word.

The Triumph of Life: Easter

Easter is the culmination—the victory.

Christ is risen.

Sin is defeated. Death is conquered. Heaven is opened.

This is the foundation of Christian faith and the reason for hope in every age.

A Living Mystery, Not Just a Memory

For Catholics, Holy Week is not simply a historical timeline—it is a living participation in the mysteries of faith.
- It is an encounter with sacrificial love
- A call to conversion and renewal
- A journey that challenges us to choose forgiveness, humility, and grace
The Easter Triduum, from Holy Thursday to Easter Sunday, stands as the pinnacle of the liturgical year because it reveals the deepest truth: love is stronger than sin, and life is stronger than death.

Enter the Story

Holy Week is more than something we observe—it is something we enter.

It invites each of us to walk with Christ:
- From praise…
- Through suffering…
- Into new life
This is why it is called the week that changed the world.

And it still changes hearts today.

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Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
March 29, 2026
Are You Jesus
Are You Jesus? Carrying On His Work in a Busy World

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Verse to live:
“Seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness.” — Gospel of Matthew 6:33

A Question That Changes Everything

Are you Jesus? At first, that question sounds uncomfortable—even wrong. But look deeper. You are not the Jesus, yet you are called to carry on His work. His love. His mission. His way of living.

Jesus didn’t just come to be admired—He came to be followed. And following Him means something radical: letting His life reshape yours.

The Problem: A Life Too Full

Modern life is loud, fast, and demanding.
Your calendar fills up. Your phone never stops. Your mind is always racing.

And somewhere in the noise, the quiet voice of Jesus gets drowned out.

How much of your busyness is preventing you from living the life Jesus is calling you to live?
- Are you too busy to listen?
- Too distracted to care deeply?
- Too guarded to love freely?
Busyness isn’t just a schedule problem—it’s often a spiritual barrier.

What Does It Mean to “Be Like Jesus”?

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To carry on His work means choosing His way daily:
- Love without condition
- Serve without recognition
- Forgive without limits
- Trust God without fear
Jesus lived with purpose, not pressure. He was never rushed, yet He changed the world.

When you “seek first the kingdom,” you’re not adding another task—you’re reordering your entire life.

Letting Your Guard Down

One of the biggest obstacles isn’t just busyness—it’s protection.

We guard:
- Our time
- Our emotions
- Our vulnerability
But Jesus calls you to something deeper: surrender.

Letting your guard down means:
- Being honest with God
- Allowing others to see your real self
- Trusting that God is enough
It takes courage. Real courage.

A Simple Shift That Changes Everything

What if today you made one small change?

Instead of asking:
“What do I need to get done today?”

Ask:
“How can I live like Jesus today?”

That one question can transform:
- Your conversations
- Your priorities
- Your purpose
Prayer

Jesus, give me the courage to let my guard down.
Jesus, give me the courage to let down my guard.

Help me to release the busyness that distracts me from You.
Teach me to seek Your kingdom first.
Show me how to carry on Your work in my everyday life.

Amen.

Final Thought

You may not be Jesus—but you are called to reflect Him.

And in a world full of noise, pressure, and distraction,
living like Him might be the most powerful thing you can do.

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Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
March 26, 2026
Saint of the Day
Saint Joseph, Husband of Mary
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Saint Joseph’s Story

The Bible pays Saint Joseph the highest compliment: he was a “just” man. The quality meant a lot more than faithfulness in paying debts.

When the Bible speaks of God “justifying” someone, it means that God, the all-holy or “righteous” one, so transforms a person that the individual shares somehow in God’s own holiness, and hence it is really “right” for God to love him or her. In other words, God is not playing games, acting as if we were lovable when we are not.

By saying Joseph was “just,” the Bible means that he was one who was completely open to all that God wanted to do for him. He became holy by opening himself totally to God.

The rest we can easily surmise. Think of the kind of love with which he wooed and won Mary, and the depth of the love they shared during their marriage.

It is no contradiction of Joseph’s manly holiness that he decided to divorce Mary when she was found to be with child. The important words of the Bible are that he planned to do this “quietly” because he was “a righteous man, yet unwilling to expose her to shame” (Matthew 1:19).

The just man was simply, joyfully, wholeheartedly obedient to God—in marrying Mary, in naming Jesus, in shepherding the precious pair to Egypt, in bringing them to Nazareth, in the undetermined number of years of quiet faith and courage.

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Reflection

The Bible tells us nothing of Joseph in the years after the return to Nazareth except the incident of finding Jesus in the Temple (Luke 2:41–51). Perhaps this can be taken to mean that God wants us to realize that the holiest family was like every other family, that the circumstances of life for the holiest family were like those of every family, so that when Jesus’ mysterious nature began to appear, people couldn’t believe that he came from such humble beginnings: “Is he not the carpenter’s son? Is not his mother named Mary…?” (Matthew 13:55a). It was almost as indignant as “Can anything good come from Nazareth?” (John 1:46b).

Saint Joseph is the Patron Saint of:

Belgium
Canada
Carpenters
China
Families
Fathers

Learn more about Saint Joseph!

Rick Herring
thmjmj@gmail.com
March 20, 2026