Tag: neighbor

  • Some Things I Have Run Across in My Journey *

    “A cheerful heart is good medicine.”* — **Proverbs 17:22**

    During my journey through life, God has taught me many lessons—some through prayer, some through joy, and many through the ordinary moments I almost overlooked. Looking back, I have discovered that happiness is often a choice, gratitude is a habit, and every day is another opportunity to grow closer to Him.

    As the years have passed, I have found that some of life’s greatest blessings are also its simplest. Smile often. Laugh often. Thank God often.

    Medical researchers tell us that laughter can reduce stress, brighten our outlook, and even support better heart health. While laughter may not make us younger in years, it certainly can make us younger in spirit. How beautiful are the words of Scripture: >

    *”A cheerful heart is good medicine, but a crushed spirit dries up the bones.”* > **— Proverbs 17:22**

    God created us for joy. Every sunrise, every friendship, every child’s laughter, every kind word, every flower in bloom, and every answered prayer reminds us that our Heavenly Father delights in giving good gifts to His children.

    ## Seeing Blessings in Disguise One of the greatest changes in my life came when I stopped seeing interruptions as inconveniences and began seeing them as invitations from God.

    Whenever something goes wrong—a spilled drink, misplaced keys, a delayed appointment, a flat tire, or any little mishap—I try to stop immediately and thank the Lord.

    That may sound strange. Why thank God for spilling coffee? Because perhaps He is trying to slow me down. Perhaps He wants me to notice something I have overlooked. Perhaps He is gently encouraging me to clean the cluttered desk I have been avoiding.

    Perhaps He is reminding me that His plans are often better than my own. Instead of becoming frustrated, I simply smile and pray:

    “Thank You, Lord.”** It is amazing how quickly peace returns when gratitude replaces irritation. Our hearts become calmer. Our minds become clearer. We begin looking for blessings instead of problems.

    The Apostle Paul encourages us: > *”Give thanks in all circumstances; for this is the will of God in Christ Jesus for you.”* > **— 1 Thessalonians 5:18** Notice that Paul says **in** all circumstances—not necessarily **for** all circumstances.

    Even during life’s inconveniences, God is present, quietly working for our good.

    Seeing Christ in Others Perhaps the greatest lesson I have ever encountered is this: **

    Treat every person you meet as though you were meeting Christ Himself.** Imagine how differently we would speak. Imagine how patiently we would listen. Imagine how kindly we would serve. Jesus told us: >

    “Whatever you did for one of the least of these brothers and sisters of Mine, you did for Me.”* > **— Matthew 25:40**

    Every person you meet today is someone for whom Christ gave His life.

    The cashier.

    The waiter.

    The receptionist.

    The neighbor.

    The lonely resident sitting quietly in the dining room.

    The family member who sometimes tests your patience.

    The stranger you may never meet again.

    Each one is precious in God’s eyes. Living here at West Fork Village has reminded me again and again that every smile in the hallway, every shared meal, every friendly conversation, and every helping hand is another opportunity to encounter Christ.

    We never know when a simple act of kindness may brighten someone’s entire day—or even change a life. When we begin seeing Christ in others, something wonderful happens.

    We become more forgiving. More patient. More compassionate. More joyful. And the world becomes a little brighter because Christ is shining through us.

    A Different Way to Live:

    The world teaches us to hurry.

    God teaches us to notice.

    The world teaches us to complain.

    God teaches us to give thanks.

    The world teaches us to judge.

    Jesus teaches us to love.

    Those simple changes can completely transform the way we experience life. Smile more. Laugh often.

    Thank God for every blessing. See every interruption as an invitation from God. Treat every person as though you were meeting Christ Himself.

    Little by little, our homes become happier, our friendships become stronger, and our hearts become more peaceful. Most importantly, we grow closer to the One who walks beside us every step of our journey.

    A Simple Challenge Tomorrow morning, before your feet touch the floor, ask God for three simple gifts:

    – A heart that smiles.

    – Eyes that recognize His blessings.

    -The grace to see Christ in every person you meet.

    If you sincerely pray that prayer each day, I believe it will begin to change your life—just as it has changed mine.

    May God grant each of us the grace to recognize His blessings, whether they come wrapped in joy, hidden inside a small inconvenience, or standing quietly before us in the face of another person. For every day is a gift.

    Every person is precious. Every moment is another opportunity to love God and to love one another.

    And perhaps that is one of the greatest discoveries we will eve make. :::

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    Rick Herring
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  • The Two Commandments That Change Everything

    Learning to Love God, Your Neighbor, and Yourself

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    In the time of Jesus, religious life for the Jewish people was shaped not only by the Ten Commandments but by 613 laws—guidelines meant to help people avoid breaking God’s covenant. These laws were intended as protection, a hedge around holiness.

    But over time, many became so focused on the rules that they lost sight of the deeper purpose behind them—the heart of the Torah, the spirit of mercy, and the living message of God.

    Then came Jesus, with the genius of divine simplicity.

    When asked which commandment was greatest, Jesus distilled all the law and the prophets into two breathtaking truths:

    “You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart, and with all your soul, and with all your mind.”
    This is the greatest and first commandment.
    And a second is like it:
    “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.”
    — Gospel of Matthew

    With these words, Jesus did not abolish the law—He fulfilled it.

    Everything hangs on love.

    The Forgotten Part of the Commandment

    Many Christians emphasize loving God.

    Many strive to love neighbor.

    But too often we neglect the third element hidden in plain sight:

    Love your neighbor as yourself.

    What if one of the deepest crises in the Church today is not simply a failure to love others—but a failure to receive and live from God’s love for ourselves?

    For until we learn to love ourselves as God desires, our love for others can become distorted.

    It can become anxious instead of peaceful.

    Performative instead of genuine.

    Driven by approval instead of grace.

    Holy Self-Love Is Not Selfishness

    There is a difference between pride and holy self-love.

    Pride says, I am the center.

    Holy self-love says, I am beloved.

    Pride inflates the ego.

    Holy self-love receives identity from God.

    To love ourselves rightly is not vanity. It is humility—the humility to agree with God about our worth.

    We are created in the image of God.

    Redeemed in Christ.

    Indwelt by the Holy Spirit.

    How can we despise what God treasures?

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    When We Love Ourselves in God

    When we begin to love ourselves as children of God, something changes.

    We become less interested in what others think about us
    and more interested in what God thinks.

    We stop doing good in order to be noticed.

    We stop serving to be praised.

    We stop performing for acceptance.

    Because we know we are already accepted.

    Already loved.

    Already enough in Christ.

    And from that freedom, love flows outward.

    Freely.

    Joyfully.

    Without calculation.

    Without fear.

    Love Changes How We See Others

    When we receive God’s love for ourselves, we begin seeing others differently.

    Not as rivals.

    Not as threats.

    Not as problems to manage.

    But as neighbors to cherish.

    Even enemies to forgive.

    Even strangers to welcome.

    This is the revolution Jesus announced.

    Not a religion of rule-keeping.

    A kingdom of love.

    The kind of love that washes feet.

    Feeds crowds.

    Touches lepers.

    Carries crosses.

    Rises from tombs.

    The Measure of Spiritual Maturity

    Perhaps spiritual maturity is simpler than we imagine.

    It is learning, day by day:

    To love God more completely.

    To love ourselves more truthfully.

    To love others more generously.

    This is the whole Gospel in practice.

    As Saint Augustine famously said:

    “Love, and do what you will.”

    Because where love governs the heart, the law has already been fulfilled.

    A Prayer

    Lord, teach us to love You
    with all our heart, soul, and mind.

    Teach us to receive the love
    You already have for us.

    Heal the places where we reject ourselves.

    Free us from living for human approval.

    And teach us to love our neighbor
    as ourselves—

    with the very love
    with which You love us.

    Amen.


    Final Reflection

    Jesus reduced 613 laws to two commandments.

    Not because holiness became smaller—

    but because love is greater.

    And perhaps the Church today needs to recover this forgotten truth:

    To love your neighbor well,

    you must learn to receive God’s love for yourself.

    And that may be where healing begins.

    Thank you for reading this article. Please share with others,

    Rick Herring
    thmjmj@gmail.com