“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.” — Luke 23:34
Someone once said, “Not forgiving someone is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die.” That simple statement contains a profound truth.
When we refuse to forgive, the person we are angry with may continue living life without ever thinking about us. Meanwhile, bitterness quietly takes root in our own hearts. Anger grows. Peace disappears. Joy fades. Our relationship with God can suffer because our hearts become occupied with yesterday’s wounds instead of today’s blessings.
Unforgiveness is a prison whose door can only be unlocked from the inside.
The Greatest Act of Forgiveness Ever Given
The greatest example of forgiveness the world has ever witnessed came from God the Father and His Son, Jesus Christ.
Out of infinite love, the Father sent His only Son into the world to redeem us.
How did humanity respond?
We rejected Him.
We mocked Him.
We humiliated Him.
We scourged Him until His body was torn.
We pressed a crown of thorns upon His sacred head.
We forced Him to carry the heavy Cross through the streets to Calvary.
Then we nailed Him to that Cross and lifted Him high before the crowds so they could continue to mock and ridicule Him.
Yet in the midst of unimaginable suffering, Jesus spoke words that continue to echo through history:
“Father, forgive them, for they know not what they do.”
Those words were not spoken only for the Roman soldiers.
They were spoken for every sinner who has ever lived—including you and me.
Every sin, from the disobedience of Adam and Eve in the Garden of Eden until the last person born before the end of time, was present before Christ. In the Garden of Gethsemane, He willingly accepted the weight of our sins because of His immeasurable love for us.
He chose forgiveness instead of revenge.
He chose mercy instead of condemnation.
He chose love instead of hatred.
Why Is Forgiveness So Difficult?
Often, we struggle to forgive because we continue living in yesterday.
We replay the hurt.
We replay the conversation.
We replay the betrayal.
The past becomes our home.
But God is always inviting us into the present moment.
Yesterday cannot be changed.
Tomorrow has not yet arrived.
Grace is found today.
Peace is found today.
God meets us today.
When we constantly live in the past, we keep reopening wounds that Christ wants to heal.
Forgiveness does not mean pretending the hurt never happened.
It does not mean saying that evil was acceptable.
It does not always mean trusting the person again.
Forgiveness means placing the hurt into God’s hands instead of carrying it ourselves.
It means refusing to let bitterness control our hearts any longer.
The Father Is Waiting
Jesus beautifully illustrated God’s love in the Parable of the Prodigal Son.
The father never stopped watching the road.
He never stopped hoping.
The moment his son returned, he ran to embrace him.
He clothed him.
He restored him.
Then he celebrated with a great feast.
That is our Heavenly Father.
Every one of us has wandered away from Him at one time or another.
Every one of us has needed mercy.
Every one of us has depended upon God’s forgiveness.
If God has forgiven us so generously, how can we refuse to forgive others?
A Prayer for the Grace to Forgive
If there is someone you have struggled to forgive, begin with a simple prayer.
“Lord Jesus, I cannot do this by myself. The hurt is real, and You know my heart. Give me the grace to forgive as You forgave me. Heal what is broken within me. Replace anger with peace, bitterness with love, and resentment with mercy. Help me to live in Your presence today rather than in yesterday’s pain. Amen.”
The Choice That Brings Freedom
Forgiveness is not weakness.
It is strength.
It is not surrendering to evil.
It is surrendering to God.
The Cross reminds us that love is stronger than hatred, mercy is greater than revenge, and forgiveness always has the final word.
Today, let us place our hurts at the foot of the Cross.
Let us leave behind the poison of resentment.
Let us receive the mercy Christ purchased for us.
And let us walk forward with peaceful hearts, knowing that our loving Father is waiting with open arms, ready to welcome every one of His sons and daughters home to the everlasting feast of Heaven.
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Rick Herring thmjmj@gmail.com
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